“People are always running around wanting to find way to get others to love them or approve of them or appreciate them, when really the answer is, if you could just start loving and approving and appreciating , you’d solve your own problem.”….

“You’re looking for love in all the wrong places.

And every place is the wrong place to look for love other than WITHIN where it is really generated from.”….

– Abraham


Of course, it feels good when others appreciate you but if your happiness depends on what others think of you, you are in trouble.

The good news is that you can always use the power of your focus (whenever you feel ready to do so) to look at a situation which is painful in a different way. Why would you want do look at it differently? You would want to feel differently because it will give you relief. Relief is what we like when in pain. In addition to feeling better, feeling relief deliberately, predominantly and consistently will also allow the law of attraction to match you up with experiences which make you feel even more relief.


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